Tears of the Silenced by Misty Griffin

Tears of the Silenced

" The severity of sexual abuse in ultra-strict Christian churches has been an open secret for too long. When will our nation address this problem? Will it ever?"-Misty Griffin When I was six years old my family started dressing like the Amish, it was the beginning of a nightmare. A few years later we moved to a mountain ranch where my sister and I were subjected to almost complete isolation, sexual abuse, and extreme physical violence.In my late ...


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TitleTears of the Silenced
Author
Release DateDec 1st, 2015
PublisherAmazon Digital Services
LanguageEnglish
GenreNonfiction, Crime, True Crime, Autobiography, Memoir, Amish, Religion
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Reviews Tears of the Silenced

  • John
    2015-08-26
    I am not sure whether to consider this a novel based on several actual abuse cases, or if its an autobiographical account with lavishly embellished events created in the authors mind to demonize and project her past abuse onto the Amish with impunity because the Amish are not very likely to dispute her story. The public is not very likely to actually demand facts but far too many will read it and take it at face value with out questionI tend to l...
  • Kymberli Ward
    2016-03-29
    I give up. If this author had an horrific childhood, she has my deepest sympathies. However, this book is not only dreadful, but completely unbelievable. "Let me count the ways ..."1. Her "family" was not Amish. That she would blame that community for her trauma(s) is ridiculous and unsupported by any kind of fact. I'm sure there are cases of child abuse in Amish communities; just as there are vile cases in every strata of society. How did she en...
  • Spider the Doof Warrior
    2015-10-16
    Dammit. It did not save my review! That's so annoying. I'll have to write it all over again. I swear if I have to write one more thing over again I will turn into something.Anyway, this book is painful to read. It's like trying to watch Slumdog Millionaire which I could not even handle because the child abuse would not end. I was like if one more child gets beaten and molested in this book... It made me want to jump into the book and just shoot h...
  • Jes Caruss
    2016-04-07
    I wish I could give ZERO stars!What a crock of shite! For someone who "doesn't remember things well" because they fell head first into the mouth of a Dane at 4 and had suffered severe head injuries (don't even get me started on that flat out lie!) she sure remembers a lot, and in minute and graphic detail! And the claims of the FBI coming in and taking her from her mom and dad because they had a warrant for kidnapping, yet the parents weren't arr...
  • Cathi Deal
    2016-08-06
    Horrifying!For years now we have romanticized the Amish as a group of people who have gone back to the basics in the most complete sense. That view almost precludes us from taking an in-depth look at what they are truly like, and some of the novels about Amish life hints at the dark side but fail to reveal what may be the actual truth. Over the last few years, differing views have been shown on television, and they caused me to choose Misty's boo...
  • Grand Promus
    2016-11-17
    A fabricated tabloid like story passing as a biography. Yes, child abuse does happen in Amish communities like it does in the world at large, trust me. HOWEVER using a sad aspect of humanity to sell books for your own gain not only takes away the attention and support for those who are abused but only make people less likely to believe those in Amish communities who come forward looking for help.From her claims to have a GED but yet failed the ma...
  • Barbikat60
    2015-06-14
    I wanted to cry but I couldn't. This is a powerful book about child abuse and how abusers get away with their crimes. I'm glad the author escaped her misery but my heart aches for all of those who cannot escape their tormentors. A few Summers back, I attended a demonstration against a Satmar male therapist who molested a young girl under his professional care. Amish and Hasidic communities are insular and nobody talks about abuse. The government ...
  • Mary
    2015-12-29
    Probably not fair to rate this book, but I stopped after reading only the very beginning. Something does not feel right in the telling. I am not at all discounting the author's experience - it is her own. That said, I acknowledge my own discomfort while reading it, and that, along with the unrelenting narrative of abuse has made me decide to put it down. I have read other books of survivors (I.e Glass Castle) that were much more readable, better ...
  • andrew y
    2017-03-13
    andrew's adventure in kindle unlimited-eligible titles, part 5:well, here it is. the top choice eligible for kindle unlimited, the obvious pinnacle of quality in the field.Trigger Warning: Expand the following field for my usual flippant tone.(view spoiler)[this might be the single worst book I have ever read. remember dave pelzer? remember saying "okay this is a little overwrought but he is helping people probably"? imagine that but now imagine ...
  • Sue
    2015-12-19
    1, Not believable. Not worth wasting my time to review. Other negative reviews pretty much sum things up.2.Poorly edited -- typos all over the place
  • J.P. Willson
    2017-08-28
    This was an extremely difficult book to read. Not simply because of the content which in places was brutal but also because of the repetitiveness of the abuse. I do understand that this kind of abuse should not be tolerated under any circumstances but once having established the brutality of such there was no need to repeat the same thing over and over just because it happened over the course of many years. The first 150 or so pages were the same...
  • Karen
    2016-02-20
    While I don't doubt what is written in this book is true, I also don't consider it typical of most of the Amish. Also, what happened with Brian and Misty's mother is most definitively not typical of the Amish as I would not consider them Amish, more like people pretending to be Amish and adopting some of their customs. Brian and his wife seem more like lazy, system beaters with sadistic personalities. I did find the book interesting and sad, but ...
  • Liz Kauffman
    2015-01-17
    Tears of the SilencedI read your book, my heart goes out to you and your Sister.You are a true example of taking your tragedies and making them into stepping stones!I am so glad you wrote your book, the outsiders need to know being Amish is not all a bed of roses.I am so proud of you for taking a stand against the Bishop and the other Ministers, that Bishop and some of the others need to be thrown in jail and throw away the key!Have you heard fro...
  • Phyllis Stinson
    2016-07-01
    HumWhether this is true or not, I personally have never read any such thing. I imagine rape happens every where but to believe the Amish would be that cruel to the victim and easy on the rapist is really over the top. I couldn't read it all. Just because they say it is true, doesn't make it so.
  • RRex
    2016-07-22
    Excellent book on what I already knew was going on in Amish communities across the country. I lived next door to one.Rape, incest, spousal, child, and animal abuse.My heart goes out to the author and all the girls and women just like her, and the boys as well.I should include the animals. I know for a fact the horses are starved and beaten into submission.
  • Audrey
    2015-03-18
    Oh it was awful, awful, awful what Misty had to endure as a child and words cannot describe how it sickened and angered it made me. I could hardly put the book down as I waited impatiently to find how she ever got out of he ordeal. Instead it seemed to go from bad to worse. First she and her sister, along with a mentally handicapped aunt and a grandmother with dementia, were horribly abused by her mother and step-father. Then has teenagers the gi...
  • Toni Marie
    2015-05-27
    Truly amazing story! Everyone should read this story and learn from the author, Misty Griffin.This book is educational, moving, and mostly inspirational. This is a novel every person should be required to read before being a teacher, a police office, a government employee that works with people. This books will open your eyes to the cults of the world and make people realize that an individual's image is not what a person really is, but what the ...
  • Maggie
    2017-04-15
    This is a self-published book, which became apparent after only a few chapters. I verified that and then read with great skepticism because with self-publication there is no fact checker. I don't totally disbelieve the verbal and physical abuse, but I don't fully believe it either. Memory is too fluid and easily changed by things which occurred before or after the event, but suddenly seem in one's memory of have happened on the same day. I'm not ...
  • cimona
    2015-10-06
    Amazing and heartbreakingI started reading the free few chapters. Usually when I do I don't buy the book. This one I did. I shed tears in shock about what the author and her sister went through with her mom and step dad. It's just evil. But how she never lost hope or faith is inspiring. Then when she thought they were free by joining Amish community and turns out that she traded one horror for a different one. Misty is a fighter for what's right....
  • Andrea Ginn Scott
    2016-02-01
    Tragic, sure. Well written, nope. Plenty of odd phrasing and moments to indicate perhaps less than authentic. I finished it because I finish things.
  • Catherine Watson
    2016-10-10
    I found this book absolutely fantastic, I couldn't put it down until I was finished! The events that unfolded were tragic, but unfortunately not surprising. It's always so horrible to hear good people suffering at the hands of evil, Amish community aside. No matter the religion, there will always be people there to try and abuse it for their own gain and to manipulate. I was elated when Misty left the church, and felt so proud of her for going to...
  • Kanika Gupta
    2017-08-05
    My first insight into the Amish culture but not the very first in sexual abuse.Misty- people like you are an inspiration to everyone and not just the ones who are abused. Experiences like yours help us appreciate the most common things in our life.Thank you for turning the lifetime of horrible abuse into something that can inspire the readers.
  • Theresa Watson
    2015-04-18
    Great Eye OpenerMost of us would never know or believe that there is this kind of abuse going on with this religion....if you can call this a religion...frankly I call it pretty sick that people can call themselves deacons or bishops of a church and put on such a phony (sweet act) outside of their culture thinks this is all right.!!!!!!! I thank GOD that I have the ability to choose what religion I want to believe in.......And...the writer was a ...
  • Marilyn Kusniesz
    2015-02-21
    I want to rate this with 10 stars. This is a non fiction story that I will never forget. The story is very inspiring and Misty gave us all a lot to think about with Amish and the way they handle things. Her childhood was just a torture and when I read she was being sent away from this horror I was at first thrilled. Thinking that her life would be given another chance to live somewhat normal, but to only find that the bishops and ministers only v...
  • Katie
    2015-09-05
    Couldn't put it downWow, I won't see the Amish the same way ever again. Ever since I can remember I've been so intrigued by them, and love visiting the Amish settlements nearby. Misty's story is heartbreaking and shocking and a real eye opener for me. I consider myself intelligent and worldly, but how ignorant of me to assume all Amish are gentle and passive people! Religion can really get in the way of true justice for the guilty, and healing fo...
  • Linda Marie Marsh
    2015-04-14
    Inspiring and a definite 5 star read. To be honest, when i started this book i actually checked twice to make sure that it was non-fiction. And yes, it is. Misty Griffin is the kind of role model that is needed these days. A young girl who endured years of horrible torture at the hands of her mother and step-father.... only to be given away to a distant Amish community. At first seen as a refuge for her and her sister, her hopes are dashed when ...
  • albert elrod
    2015-05-26
    Child abuseAnyone who has ever been the victim of child abuse s hould read this story. It will keep you interested all the way thru. And without giving away the story I will say this overcame her abuse and became the victor in the end. Very interesting read that will open your eyes to the ways of the Amish that will not only surprise you but shock YOU as well. I know I've been taught all my life what amazing people they are but they are no differ...
  • Debbie
    2017-03-06
    Well, where do I start? I can only say thank god I'm finally finished. A very difficult book to read and like others have said I'm not sure how true it all is. I'm inclined to believe most of the abuse and much that the author wrote about the Amish, although I feel there's definitely some embellishments. I also feel that some of the things she wrote about her childhood don't add up. Things she knew when, if she lived the life she claimed to have ...
  • julie
    2016-03-24
    This was unbelievable story. Made me sad,angry for any abuse especially to children. This is an old an always a prayer to God This is always a prayer to God to stop any harm to children. It is unbelievable a parent can be so bad an let another hurt your child like this. I have come to realise humans are evil. I am thankful that she was so brave and finally got a break. She is certainly an inspiration an I hope more come to realise this is so wron...