Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth by Warsan Shire

Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth

What elevates 'teaching my mother how to give birth', what gives the poems their disturbing brilliance, is Warsan Shire's ability to give simple, beautiful eloquence to the veiled world where sensuality lives in the dominant narrative of Islam; reclaiming the more nuanced truths of earlier times - as in Tayeb Salih's work - and translating to the realm of lyric the work of the likes of Nawal El Saadawi. As Rumi said, "Love will find its way throu...

Details Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth

TitleTeaching My Mother How to Give Birth
Release DateDec 29th, 2011
PublisherFlipped Eye
GenrePoetry, Feminism, Nonfiction

Reviews Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth

  • Baba
    4.5 stars. Review posted September 2, 2014. **RE-READ JULY 21, 2016**If this is not going to touch you what will?38 pages that will hit you hard and put life into perspective. Conversations About Home(at the Deportation Centre) Well, I think home spat me out, the blackouts and curfews like tongue against loose tooth. God, do you know how difficult it is, to talk about the day your own city dragged you by the hair, past the old prison, past the sc...
  • Bookdragon Sean
    Through Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth the empowerment of women becomes like a burning tempest kindled up by the rawness of Warsan Shire’s words. The poems are also about reality, the horrors that some people have to face in a word driven by war. They carry with them such human depth, none more so than the poem In Love and In War. “To my daughter I will say‘when the men come, set yourself on fire.’”The poem is only two lines, but ...
  • Bri Hudson
    I should mark this as read. However, I carry the book in my purse and have read it everyday since it arrived in the mail. I loved it the moment I opened the first page. The intro hit me like a ton of bricks "I have my mother's mouth and my father's eyes..." that line hit me like a ton of bricks. I love poetry that is plain. That is not left up to interpretation. There is no confusion about what she was trying to say. She masters "show don't tell"...
  • Anne
    Today is a good day. Today is a wonderful day - any day that starts out like this is. I found a house full of words. Bold, fearless, silky, abrasive, wounding words. Warsan Shire is a house full of words. Words that don't cuddle you, words that envelope you. There's a deep sense of melancholy to her words and quite a lot of her poems contain explicit content - which I have absolutely no qualms about. If you don't do bold and abrasive, then this p...
  • Khadidja
    Short meaningful poems"Inna lillahi Wa inna ilaihi Rajioon.My mother says no one can fight it, the body returning to God" "Sofia used pigeon blood on her wedding night.Next day, over the phone, she told mehow her husband smiled when he saw the sheets,that he gathered them under his nose,closed his eyes and dragged his tongue over the stain.She mimicked his baritone, how he whisperedher name– Sofia,pure, chaste, untouched."
  • Whitney Atkinson
    3.5 starsThis book was very informative, eye-opening, and interesting. I think I came out of it very shocked because I read books all about Kenya this past semester for school, so catching references about the country and Islam was very neat for me. A lot of these poems are super dark, so trigger warning for domestic violence and rape/sexual assault, but the haunting quality to them made them so addicting and tragic. I ended up reading some of th...
  • Hayat
    Strangely beautiful!OMG! This book went straight to my heart and and touched my soul because it was disturbing, painfully honest, strangely compelling and beautiful! Warsan Shire is my home girl and I can't wait to read all of her works.
  • Chrissy
    To my daughter I will say,'when the men come, set yourself on fire'.
  • Liz Janet
    “To my daughter I will say,‘when the men come, set yourself on fire’. – In Love and In WarI first came across Warsan Shire’s poetry through a review of her poem “The Kitchen” by African Soulja, which had the entire poem in it. The rawness between the present events, and the description food, created such a visual image that I knew I was going to love her writing. Her poetry has many similarities to most of my favourite slam poets, a...
  • Emer
    I have been savouring this short book of poems for weeks. It's hard to know how to review this collection as it feels so personal. My experience with the words so intimate. I often picked up this book and read aloud the contents within. And the stillness I found in the quiet of my own voice reading these beautiful words... I simply can't explain it. Truth. Beauty. Love. three and a half stars “Your daughter is ugly.She knows loss intimately,car...
  • David Schaafsma
    Yesterday was the Women’s March on DC, NYC, LA, the world, so I read this book of poems by London-based Somali poet Shires, visceral poetry, angry, passionate in every way. This 34 page book will be part of her first full length collection of poetry. Thanks to Liz Janet, whose great review led me to this book.Here’s some lines and sections of poems from the book I liked a lot:“I know a few things to be true. I do not know where I am going, ...
  • Anya
    I have my mother’s mouth and my father’s eyes; on my face they are still together."And just like that, I was a goner.
  • Ian
    He was sitting in the hospital parking lotin a borrowed car, counting the windowsof the building, guessing which onewas glowing with his mistake. Poetry is difficult, almost impossible to review. It's actually tempting to not review this collection of poems, to not rate it.But I will...The poetry I read is a bit of a mixed bag. I have collections by Rabbie Burns, Edgar Allen Poe, Banjo Patterson and e.e.cummings. I like what I like but there is p...
  • Puck
    When We Last Saw Your FatherHe was sitting in the hospital parking lotin a borrowed car, counting the windowsof the building, guessing which onewas glowing with his mistake. Don’t you love it when literature graps you tight and doesn’t let go? Warsan Shire’s bold, beautiful poetry does exactly that. When you are reading this book it feels like the woman is sitting close to you, holding your hand and telling you, with burning eyes and a shar...
  • Tori (InToriLex)
    Find this and other Reviews at InToriLex "I have my mother's mouth and my fathers eyes, on my face they are still together."  I don't get a chance to read a lot of poetry, but when I do it pulls at my soul. I stared at the cover of this slim but powerful book for a while. The imaginative and powerful image of a gun going through a woman is enough to think on how my own voice is muzzled by myself but also the environment I'm in. I love this ...
  • Trish
    Last night in bed I swear I thought my body was on fire.What a lovely and eloquent little book. The tone, subject matter, and emotion in this one really stands out among the numerous modern poetry collections.
  • Eunice Moral
    The poem Ugly is beautiful, definitely a favorite.
  • Sofia
    I only opened the book to take a peekAnd then I only moved to sit more comfortably as I readPoetry of all the senses and the emotions and the feelings
  • Jenna
    This is a slim debut chapbook of vivid, visceral, violent poems by a U.K.-based writer of Somali heritage who has already achieved widespread fame despite her young age (you may have seen her work featured in Beyonce's Lemonade). I was first drawn to her work some months ago after reading her poem "the birth name", which advises readers to "give your daughters difficult names.... my name doesn’t allow me to trust anyone that cannot pronounce it...
  • Mahima
    My god, Warsan Shire writes beautiful poetry! And I mean it when I say that. This is beautiful poetry. Brutally beautiful. I'm just going to quote some of the lines here that I found to be the most beautiful."Your grandfather's hands were brown.Your grandmother kissed each knuckle,circled an island into his palmand told him which parts they would share,which parts they would leave alone.She wet a finger to draw where the ocean would beon his wris...
  • Cat
    “I glow the way unwanted things do, a neon sign that reads; come, I still taste like someone else’s mouth.” I stumbled upon Warsan Shire's work after attending a spoken word event when I was in New York last summer. Not something that is so popular here in England, i was intrigued. This book is amazing. Warsan Shires work is amazing, and some of her poems in this book made me tear up and wonder at how we all have ths same words, but only a ...
  • Elli (The Bibliophile)
    I devoured this collection of poems back in May on a train journey into London and loved every moment. I would love to reread these poems soon, there is so much to unpack in each one!
  • Robyn
    Because it’s World Refugee Day, and I’ve been reading Shire’s poem, Home, over and over, I decided it was time to read this one too. Beautiful and horrifying. Glad I picked up this short volume.
  • Lily
    This was a fantastic collection of poetry. Warsan Shire deals with trauma and narrative and the two combined results in something very near and dear to my heart. Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth is rife with emotional depth. It does not gloss over themes which are innately complex for the sake of the reader. In my opinion, it manages to be both lyrical and approachable while still pulling the reader in and encouraging her to think.I appreciat...
  • Frances
    I have my mother’s mouth and my father’s eyes; on my face they are still together.
  • MissSugarTown
    Poems about refugees, war and violence against women were brilliant.
  • L.A.
    Shire's poem is very much grounded in the body; the main themes of this collection are sex and violence, as well as the relationships between mothers and daughters. The body is the medium for all of these themes: either the poem contains concrete imagery on the body and what it does/what has been done to it, or it speaks of the fraught relationship mothers and daughters have, often over, and through, the body of the maturing daughter. These poems...
  • Joanka
    It's a small but powerful collection of poems that really resonated with me. Some poems were simply transfixing, others didn't make that impression on me but still I perceive them to be really good. I read one of them translated into Polish by Karolina Bednarz and it proved that they work in translation really well, so it would be amazing to have this collection published in Poland as it is an important voice in many current discussions.
  • Weronika Zimna
    There were poems I loved, poems that made me think and poems that almost made me cry. There were some poems that didn't really affect me but still - this is an extraordinary poetry collection and I can recommend it to anyone. It's smart, it's true, it's fresh. It will make you feel something and that is what I value the most when it comes to poetry.
  • Zöe Yu
    This is a small but powerful book, I read it from a friend's recommendation. Each poem worth scrutinizing; each poem raises a little but yet huge issue. The book is written by a young poet, with a very narrow but yet board focus, like in a war.