Smoke Gets in Your Eyes by Caitlin Doughty

Smoke Gets in Your Eyes

Most people want to avoid thinking about death, but Caitlin Doughty—a twenty-something with a degree in medieval history and a flair for the macabre—took a job at a crematory, turning morbid curiosity into her life’s work. Thrown into a profession of gallows humor and vivid characters (both living and very dead), Caitlin learned to navigate the secretive culture of those who care for the deceased.Smoke Gets in Your Eyes tells an unusual com...

Details Smoke Gets in Your Eyes

TitleSmoke Gets in Your Eyes
Release DateSep 28th, 2015
PublisherW. W. Norton Company
GenreNonfiction, Autobiography, Memoir, Death, Science, Biography

Reviews Smoke Gets in Your Eyes

  • Will Byrnes
    There are many words a woman in love longs to hear. “I’ll love you forever, darling,” and “Will it be a diamond this year?” are two fine examples. But young lovers take note: above all else, the phrase every girl truly wants to hear is, “Hi, this is Amy from Science Support; I’m dropping off some heads.” You have all seen The Producers, right? The version with Zero or Nathan, in the cinema, on TV, on the stage, whatever. Those of...
  • Petra X
    I finished the book. The first part is 2-star fluffy. The main part is 5-star interesting with lots of gems on what we really look like dead and how even dead premature babies get shaved of their lanugo and cosmetically-enhanced so they will look 'natural' for their viewing. That was creey, right? But that's what makes the book so interesting, it's creepy (view spoiler)[Why crematory floors need to be old and pitted and why obese people are crema...
  • Melki
    Ten months into my job at Westwind, I knew death was the life for me. When Caitlin Doughty took a job at a California crematory, she learned more than just how to dispose of dead bodies. The daily exposure to death changed her thinking on the subject and turned her into a warrior fighting the good fight for the good death. While practicing the process of turning a former human into four to seven pounds of grayish ash and bone, Doughty's way of th...
  • Elyse
    Call me morbid? ....ghastly?.....Bonkers? Right after I finished reading the memoir "When Breath Becomes Air", by Paul Kalanithi- a 4th year medical student working at Stanford Hospital ...(only 30 minutes from my house), - who died this year of Lung Cancer.., THIS book arrives in my mail box the SAME day (just 'hours' after I wrote a review for Kalanithi's book) Creepy! AND .....what's even more creepy ... is I don't know who sent me this paper ...
  • Debbie
    I think this book gets the award for best opening line."A girl always remembers the first corpse she shaves." So, yeah, I was pulled in from the beginning. Caitlin is 23 and lands her first job as a mortician. Why you ask? Well, turns out she is terrified of death. Has been ever since she saw a documentary that depicted death when she was very young. She is obsessed with thoughts of her, her family, and friends demise. The beginning wasted no tim...
  • Diane
    I saw this title on a few Best Of lists for the year, but I thought it was just OK.Caitlin Doughty worked at a crematory in the San Francisco area. She said she had been both fascinated by and terrified of death since she was a little girl, when she witnessed a child's fatal fall in a shopping mall. This book is a combination of her stories about cremating bodies, her research into the history of death practices around the world, and tales of woe...
  • Carole (Carole's Random Life in Books)
    This review was also posted at Carole's Random LifeThis was the best little book that I didn't even know that I wanted to read. I have to say that I would have probably never picked this book up for myself. I didn't even know that this book existed until it showed up at my house a couple of weeks ago. My initial impression of the book when I received was lackluster at best. I thought it was an advance copy of a book at first because the cover loo...
  • Sandy Reilly
    Amazing! Yes, it is about death, but not in the way one would typically think. It was difficult for me to describe this book to friends who asked what I was currently reading, as most would give me a funny look when I said it is about a woman who worked at a crematory. However, I can say with great confidence that Ms. Doughty has written one of the most interesting, thought-provoking pieces I have read in a very long time. She poses many question...
  • Jessica
    I’ve had more first-hand experience with death than just about anyone else I know in my age group. By the time I hit thirty, I’d lost three grandparents (five, if you let me count my high-school boyfriend’s grandparents; they lived with his family), a mother, two high-school friends, a former roommate, an uncle, a dozen great aunts and uncles, three dogs, and a small army of cats. I briefly considered becoming a grief therapist before reali...
  • Jay Green
    Yes, I finished it on Halloween. Perfect! Except I would have been happy for it to have had another 100 pages to devour. I'm still on a kind of coming-to-terms-with-Dad's-death reading program, and since we followed his wishes and had him cremated, this book seemed like it would offer real insights into that process and help me understand what his remains went through. But it was better than that. Caitlin Doughty offers a down-to-earth but always...
  • Sonja Arlow
    My fascination with the macabre and death is perhaps a case of staring at the boogeyman till he loses its power over me.This book gave me the opportunity to stare very hard!Part memoir, part research and full of the right intentions this book covers a range of death related topics:1) Death rituals of other cultures and just how skewed the Western worlds desire to detach itself so completely from death and any reminder of its own mortality2) Death...
  • Darlene
    "The meaning of life is that it ends." -KafkaThis book, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory is difficult to characterize. It's part memoir and part history of death customs; but it is also an advocacy for a much needed change in the way our society views death, the deceased and our own mortality. The author, Caitlin Doughty, describes herself as a 'death-positive' mortician. She also blogs about issues and attitudes rega...
  • Marie
    “What does not kill me makes me stronger.” – NietzscheI was thoroughly impressed by this memoir and social commentary on death and dying written by such a young woman. Caitlin Doughty, at the age of 23, has produced an impressive, well researched commentary on how we as a society perceive death, talk (or not talk) about death, and view the body and what happens post-mortem. She brings the death industry to light as well as the options avail...
  • Bark
    “A girl always remembers the first corpse she shaves.”I sometimes think I’ve missed my life’s true calling. That of being a mortuary worker. But after reading this book I’m not so sure. I always thought the idea of working with people who didn’t talk back was a nice one, you know? No office politics, no grumpy personalities to tip-toe around, no one stealing your lunch and there’s never a lack of business. Sounds like bliss to me. U...
  • B. Rule
    This is a quick read and a relatively light, frothy take on a dark subject. Doughty adopts the authorial persona of "cheerful goth" which largely works for her approach, combining anecdotal accounts of her time in the death industry with repeated polemics to bring death back into our daily awareness through proximity to bodies and decay, a la her "Order of the Good Death." There are some weird tonal shifts that I think may be evidence of clumsy e...
  • Carol
    I've always been interested in the rituals surrounding death. W.W. Norton & Company grabbed my attention with this synopsis of Caitlyn Doughty's Smoke Gets In Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory "A young mortician goes behind the scenes, unafraid of the gruesome (and fascinating) details of her curious profession."If you've ever wondered why anyone would become a mortician, work in a crematory or choose to help the living in the proce...
  • Mark
    Did you ever read the first line of a book to see if it grabbed you? Well, this odd memoir grabbed me from the first sentence and wouldn't let go until the end of the source notes.Most of us probably hold at least a little bit of morbid curiosity about what goes on behind the doors at your local crematorium. Your curiosity will be more than satisfied by Ms. Doughty's account of her years as a burgeoning mortician. In addition to details such as h...
  • Mariana
    Hace muchísimo tiempo que quería leer algo escrito por Caitlin Doughty, me encantan sus videos de Youtube y toda su propuesta acerca de ser más "death positive" me parece muy interesante. Llegué a este libro sintiendo que yo ya era súper aceptante de la muerte y que es un tema del cual no me molesta hablar. ¿Cadáveres? He visto varios, pues durante un año -antes de entrar a mi carrera- estudié la carrera técnica de perito en criminalís...
  • Rebecca Foster
    (3.5) Caitlin Doughty, a funeral director in her early thirties, is on a mission. Her goal? Nothing less than completely changing how we think about death and the customs surrounding it. Her odyssey through the death industry began when she was 23 and started working at suburban San Francisco’s Westwind Crematorium. She had spent her first 18 years in Hawaii and saw her first dead body at age eight when she went to a Halloween costume contest a...
  • Erin Lee
    It's kind of weird that in our culture, we'll talk endlessly about what might or might not happen to our souls after we die, but it's considered morbid or impolite to discuss what happens to our bodies when we die. If you're concerned about where your trash goes, or whether or not you can recycle that plastic salad container, maybe spare a thought or two to how you want your body disposed of when you're done with it. I saw the author speak at a p...
  • Melissa Chung
    What an extremely well written and informative look on death and the behind the scenes of cremation and burial. This is Caitlin Doughty's autobiographical account on starting her life in the death business. Going from a lonely cremation operator to licensed mortician. Loved her sense of humor and was delighted in her unending NEED to make death less of an unknown. Fighting to bring mortality to the forefront and to squash the misinformation surro...
  • Clif Hostetler
    This book provides a thorough description of bodily death and decomposition. Death is part of life. But it has been mostly hidden from our lives by modern western culture. So the material from this book is bitter medicine for most readers unaccustomed to these details. It's an unpleasant subject, but the reader is wiser for having read it.The book is structured around the author's memoir of her several years working in the funeral business (i.e. ...
  • Lauren Stoolfire
    Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory by Caitlin Doughty is a fascinating, refreshingly frank, and a very educational look into the death industry, death rituals, and Doughty's personal experiences. I highly recommend this book of social science, though, fair warning, it isn't for the faint of heart. There's so much to learn and take into consideration. By the way, Svengoolie even gets a mention (!) in the final chapter as...
  • Laura
    Societally, death simultaneously intrigues and terrifies us; it is an ever present aspect in our lives and perhaps the one certainty we can all expect to encounter. This is an interesting, sensitively written account of how a young woman in her twenties finds herself caring for the dead whilst working within the walls of a Californian crematorium. The author writes with a hefty dose of dark humour (really, is there any other kind suitable in this...
  • Tania
    Death drives every creative and destructive impulse we have as human beings. The closer we come to understanding it, the closer we come to understanding ourselves.I struggled with this book. It was very interesting and I especially found the idea that most of us are not in touch with our mortality and that we try and avoid death and everything related to it at all cost thought-provoking. On the down side I couldn't figure out if it was supposed t...
  • MissSugarTown
    Un essai vraiment intéressant et très drôle sur la mort et plus précisément le lien avec celle-ci au sein de la société américaine, que faire de notre corps une fois hors service ? On n'y pense jamais et pourtant ça en dit long sur nous-mêmes.
  • Anna
    “For you are dust, and to dust you shall return.”
  • Evan
    I had been an avid reader of Doughty's "Ask a Mortician" series on Jezebel when one of my students told me she wanted to be a mortician. "I've got just the person to read," I had replied, sending her to Jez. Then, via the Twitter feed, I learned that a book was forthcoming. To be honest (with myself, since no one else reads my reviews), I had some misgivings about reading this book, but I'm glad I did. The first time I read the phrase "death deni...
  • Abby
    I seriously loved this book. Caitlin Doughty describes her experiences working in a crematory as well as details death practices from around the world. It's a fascinating look inside the funeral business. Be cautious though. You need a stomach of steel to get through this one.