Maid by Stephanie Land

Maid

Evicted meets Nickel and Dimed in Stephanie Land's memoir about working as a maid, a beautiful and gritty exploration of poverty in America. Includes a foreword by Barbara Ehrenreich. "My daughter learned to walk in a homeless shelter."While the gap between upper middle-class Americans and the working poor widens, grueling low-wage domestic and service work--primarily done by women--fuels the economic success of the wealthy. Stephanie Land worked...


Details Maid

TitleMaid
ISBN9780316505116
Author
Release DateJan 22nd, 2019
PublisherHachette Books
LanguageEnglish
GenreNonfiction, Autobiography, Memoir, Biography
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Reviews Maid

  • Roxane
    2018-07-30
    This book is going to garner a range of reactions when it’s published. What this book does well is illuminate the struggles of poverty and single-motherhood, the unrelenting frustration of having no safety net, the ways in which our society is systemically designed to keep impoverished people mired in poverty, the indignity of poverty by way of unmovable bureaucracy, and people’s lousy attitudes toward poor people. When she writes about her c...
  • C.J. Maughan
    2019-01-17
    Hooooooooo boy was this one frustrating. I almost gave up multiple times because it made me so angry, but let's just start at the beginning. I got this from Book of the Month. On their description it wasn't exactly clear that this was a nonfiction read (they may have changed it since). So I had VERY different expectations upon opening this book up and was very disappointed to see that it was not fiction. But, hey, I'm cool, I like nonfiction and ...
  • Maureen
    2018-11-28
    Stephanie Land didn’t experience the best start in life, well not when it comes down to the most important thing for a child - love. Neither parent seemed to have much of it to give, in fact they present themselves as extremely selfish individuals. Stephanie finds herself pregnant and in an abusive relationship, which should herald the end of her dreams of going to college, but this is one thing that she will try desperately to hang onto.We acc...
  • karen
    2018-11-02
    fulfilling book riot's 2018 read harder challenge task #14: A book of social sciencethis one might be more memoir than social science, but it's ehrenreich-approved and that's good enough for me!!**********************************************okay, so i would say this is definitely more memoir than social science, but i went into it with good intentions, and it's too close to the end of the year* for me to be a stickler for reading challenge precis...
  • Katie
    2019-02-09
    “I WORK 25 HOURS A WEEK AS A PROFESSIONAL CLEANER, BUT IT’S NOT ENOUGH TO PAY THE BILLS.” (Page 131)Going into this book, I so badly wanted to come out rooting for Stephanie Land, but I keep coming back to that quote above and cannot wrap my head around what should be “surprising” about her story. As a college educated woman who works for one of the largest companies in the world, if I worked 25 hours a week it would not be enough to pa...
  • Diane S ☔
    2018-10-14
    Wish I could have climbed into these pages and given this young woman a hug! Nineteen pregnant, she leaves an abusive relationship. When her daughter is born she is a single mother with few resources and very little support. This is a honest, down to earth, telling of her story trying to manuver through a system that is stacked against her. She is a hard worker and takes the only job she can get, while still taking care of her daughter, and takin...
  • Linda Hutchinson
    2019-01-30
    This won’t be popular but I found this book, “Maid,” supremely irritating. The pitch was whiny, judgmental, and jealous. This may come off as harsh but some life situations are made from bad choices. Some from just bad luck. But to begrudge anyone else a bit of happiness because your life is hard was just poor taste. I admire Stephanie Land’s work ethic...but, I didn’t think her writing was strong and the details were repetitious. There...
  • j e w e l s
    2019-03-12
    FOUR STARSI saw Stephanie Land, the author, on my hometown local morning television show. I was struck by her sincerity, her soft voice, and her courage in “outing” herself as a single mother struggling to survive in poverty. Land’s memoir begins with her unexpected pregnancy by a new boyfriend at age 28. The boyfriend is more than a jerk and Land gets away from him once he becomes violent. Without any family help that she could count on, L...
  • Bookworm
    2019-01-31
    As a licensed clinical social worker with over 30 years experience working with the marginalized populations, I was predisposed to like this book, and be sympathetic toward the protagonist. However I was surprised to find as I read this book, what little empathy I had for her. She does not come across as sympathetic but rather as whiny and entitled.This is a 28-year-old woman who got pregnant, bore a child, and had to use “several different pro...
  • Brandice
    2019-02-03
    In Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother’s Will to Survive, we meet Stephanie Land, a single mom to her daughter, Mia, trying to keep a roof over their heads and maintain some form of stable life. This is easier said than done as Stephanie is met with numerous challenges including little support from her family, Mia’s father, and other relationships, as well as multiple jobs with low paying wages that rarely allow those performing them to ge...
  • Esil
    2019-01-17
    3+ starsMaid has an important message and I have a lot of respect and sympathy for Stephanie Land, but I didn’t love reading her book. In her late 20s, Land found herself coming out of an abusive relationship as the single mother of a toddler. She had very few financial options, so she took what help she could from government assistance and started working as a maid. Her book is a memoir of the three or four years she struggled to support herse...
  • Susan
    2018-07-11
    First, this book is most certainly NOT in the category of Evicted, one of the most well-researched, measured and thoughtful books published on the subject of chronic poverty in America. I wanted to like this book, and feel that the subject matter is critically important to expose and discuss. Yet...I just didn't. There's a kind of immaturity about the book (and frankly, many of the author's actions) that grated, especially the flip-flopping betwe...
  • Jenna
    2019-05-06
    When I saw this book described as "Evicted meets Nickel and Dimed", I knew I had to read it. They are two terrific books in my opinion. I can't say Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother's Will to Survive was as good as those but I still enjoyed it. Stephanie Land became homeless when she decided to take her young child and leave an abusive relationship. The book narrates her struggles to rise out of poverty and provide a decent life for her daug...
  • Stephanie
    2019-02-16
    This book is TERRIBLE. I cannot understand why it's being compared to “Nickeled and Dimed” or “Evicted”, both of which are well written, researched and coherent. But this? It’s nothing but a 200+ page Go-Fund-Me rant. The writing is also very poor, alternating between pretentious and sloppy ("off of" is not a synonym for “from”, for God's sake). Which was disappointing, as I was very interested in reading Stephanie Land's story & ex...
  • Donna
    2019-01-25
    This is one book that I’ve grappled with in trying to write a review. There are a few conflicting impressions that I’ve turned over in my mind, causing me to question why I feel as I do about the story. I thought about just giving a glossed-over review, focusing only on what I appreciated (and there was a lot to appreciate) about this account of a young, single mother’s struggle to survive and raise her child. I wanted to be generous, but I...
  • Michelle
    2019-01-22
    In “Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother’s Will to Survive” debut author Stephanie Land narrates her drastic and desperate story of survival as a single mother raising her daughter in Washington state—the home of Amazon, Boeing, Microsoft and Starbucks. The “indolent poor” are often blamed for their condition: accused of draining tax dollars from government "entitlements" and paltry SNAP (Food Stamp) benefits that seldom (or minimal...
  • Nancy
    2019-01-25
    "Poverty was like a stagnant pool of mud that pulled at our feet and refused to let go." from Maid by Stephanie LandI'll be brutally honest, and you can "unfollow" me if you want, I don't care, but ever since Presidents Roosevelt and Johnson created social programs to help the poor there have been politicians determined to slash, limit, and end them. And one of their methods is to vilify the poor as blood-sucking, lazy, ignorant, "self-entitled" ...
  • Dianne
    2019-04-17
    I really enjoyed this! If you read “Evicted” (highly recommend), this is along the same lines, but in a first person perspective on how difficult it is - damn near impossible - to break free from the cycle of poverty.Land is a single parent with no back-up support she can count on for financial or emotional support. She has dreams of being a writer, but dreams don’t pay the bills. Neither does cleaning other peoples’ houses, apparently. L...
  • Darlene
    2019-07-18
    "If you're rich, you might want to stay that way. It's a whole lot cheaper than being poor." -Barbara Ehrenreich " But shame is a verb as well as a noun. Almost nobody arrives at shame on their own: there are shamers and shamees...... In fact, it may be wiser to think of shame as a relationship rather than just a feeling-- a relationship of domination in which the mocking judgments of the dominant are internalized by the dominated. Shaming can ...
  • Stacy
    2019-01-26
    This book is terrible. Where do I start? This is basically a book of a woman complaining "woe is me", throwing herself a pity party. She blames everyone else for her problems and doesn't accept any responsibility for her terrible decisions. First of all, this book promised what it didn't deliver. From the Amazon description: "Maid explores the underbelly of upper-middle class America and the reality of what it's like to be in service to them." No...
  • Kimber
    2019-06-03
    This is a book that needed to be written. I cleaned houses for four years and could totally relate to this. Land reveals the secrets of maids: that feeling of "knowing" a house, and sensing the energy within, and the lives that are lived there...We know more about you then you think but most maids will never resort to pilfering through your things at all...I worked on teams and that never happened. We would get fired if we were caught. We were ne...
  • Autumn
    2018-06-20
    Is this book supposed to be surprising? Eye-opening? It's by a lady who gets pregnant from an abusive relationship and then she has to clean houses and wrangle with government assistance programs to make ends meet. Like 1 million other ladies. I don't get it.
  • Valerity (Val)
    2018-11-05
    Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother's Will to SurviveStephanie Land didn’t have it easy.  She was a single mom who worked hard cleaning other people’s houses, working in their yards, doing whatever she had to in order to feed herself and her daughter, Mia. This was after she found herself homeless when the father of her daughter kicked them out. It’s not like she felt she could ask her folks for help, no way. She found that government h...
  • Julie Christine
    2019-04-11
    My mother once told me that her greatest fear was to end up homeless, a so-called "bag lady." I, a short-sighted, selfish teenager, just rolled my eyes, but even then the thought of her vulnerability chilled me. I'm older now that she was when she made this confession, and her fear has become mine. Because I have seen, and experienced first-hand, how one decision, one misstep, can cause the dominoes of disaster to fall around you. “I knew that ...
  • Jennifer Blankfein
    2019-02-23
    Maid is the story of one woman’s survival living below the poverty line and working hard to rise above and provide for her daughter. Follow Book Nation by Jen for all reviews and recommendations.Everyone has a story and it is possible that Stephanie Land’s is not all that unique. That is the importance of her telling us about her job as a Maid, her strength and persistence to support herself and her daughter while bringing to light the challe...
  • Kenzee
    2018-08-19
    *I won this book in a GoodReads Giveaway*I really thought I was going to like this book. As someone who was raised by a bad a** single mother, who fought her way up in the world, I thought I would really relate to this story. It didn't happen.Despite the seriousness of the topic - I just couldn't muster up much sympathy for her. Which seems insane. How could I not feel for her? Here's why:"Living with illness or pain was part of my daily life. Bu...
  • Cassidy Green
    2019-02-12
    I wanted to like this book. I was raised by a single mother with two kids after fleeing horrific abuse. We were on government assistance and food stamps, and I was on free or reduced lunch all the way through my adolescent years. My GED holding mother worked early mornings, late nights, and took every opportunity afforded to her. She worked as a waitress, at construction sites, as a water truck driver. Anything to support us.By every stretch of t...
  • Elizabeth
    2019-01-30
    Ugh, so glad this is done. I really should have just abandoned it. Stephanie Land is a really hard worker and I appreciated the glimpse into what life as a single mom living in poverty is like. It's not my personal experience so it is good to put myself into someone else's shoes for a little while. It did help me see how hard it is to pull yourself out despite the government assistance (that apparently is not that great). It made me think about s...
  • june3
    2019-02-10
    It took me awhile to figure out what troubled me so much about this book. Stay with me. Please understand that I'm politically quite far to the left of center. I believe that social services in the US are woefully, horribly inadequate. No one in the USA should wake up hungry or sick with nowhere to turn. While our country offers much in the way of opportunity, it is all too easy to crash and burn. Also, please understand also that I personally ta...
  • Maxwell
    2019-04-04
    What a beautifully told story despite so much of the bleakness and adversity it presents. I don't really know how to talk about Stephanie Land's story any better than she does in this book, but I can say that she is a fantastic writer and this is worth spending your time reading.