Maid by Stephanie Land

Maid

Evicted meets Nickel and Dimed in Stephanie Land's memoir about working as a maid, a beautiful and gritty exploration of poverty in America. Includes a foreword by Barbara Ehrenreich. "My daughter learned to walk in a homeless shelter."While the gap between upper middle-class Americans and the working poor widens, grueling low-wage domestic and service work--primarily done by women--fuels the economic success of the wealthy. Stephanie Land worked...


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TitleMaid
ISBN9780316505116
Author
Release DateJan 22nd, 2019
PublisherHachette Books
LanguageEnglish
GenreNonfiction, Autobiography, Memoir, Biography
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  • Roxane
    2018-07-30
    This book is going to garner a range of reactions when it’s published. What this book does well is illuminate the struggles of poverty and single-motherhood, the unrelenting frustration of having no safety net, the ways in which our society is systemically designed to keep impoverished people mired in poverty, the indignity of poverty by way of unmovable bureaucracy, and people’s lousy attitudes toward poor people. When she writes about her c...
  • Maureen
    2018-11-28
    Stephanie Land didn’t experience the best start in life, well not when it comes down to the most important thing for a child - love. Neither parent seemed to have much of it to give, in fact they present themselves as extremely selfish individuals. Stephanie finds herself pregnant and in an abusive relationship, which should herald the end of her dreams of going to college, but this is one thing that she will try desperately to hang onto.We acc...
  • karen
    2018-11-02
    NOW AVAILABLE!!!fulfilling book riot's 2018 read harder challenge task #14: A book of social sciencethis one might be more memoir than social science, but it's ehrenreich-approved and that's good enough for me!!**********************************************okay, so i would say this is definitely more memoir than social science, but i went into it with good intentions, and it's too close to the end of the year* for me to be a stickler for reading ...
  • Diane S ☔
    2018-10-14
    Wish I could have climbed into these pages and given this young woman a hug! Nineteen pregnant, she leaves an abusive relationship. When her daughter is born she is a single mother with few resources and very little support. This is a honest, down to earth, telling of her story trying to manuver through a system that is stacked against her. She is a hard worker and takes the only job she can get, while still taking care of her daughter, and takin...
  • Brandice
    2019-02-03
    In Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother’s Will to Survive, we meet Stephanie Land, a single mom to her daughter, Mia, trying to keep a roof over their heads and maintain some form of stable life. This is easier said than done as Stephanie is met with numerous challenges including little support from her family, Mia’s father, and other relationships, as well as multiple jobs with low paying wages that rarely allow those performing them to ge...
  • Esil
    2019-01-17
    3+ starsMaid has an important message and I have a lot of respect and sympathy for Stephanie Land, but I didn’t love reading her book. In her late 20s, Land found herself coming out of an abusive relationship as the single mother of a toddler. She had very few financial options, so she took what help she could from government assistance and started working as a maid. Her book is a memoir of the three or four years she struggled to support herse...
  • Michelle
    2019-01-22
    In “Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother’s Will to Survive” debut author Stephanie Land narrates her drastic and desperate story of survival as a single mother raising her daughter in Washington state—the home of Amazon, Boeing, Microsoft and Starbucks. The “indolent poor” are often blamed for their condition: accused of draining tax dollars from government "entitlements" and paltry SNAP (Food Stamp) benefits that seldom (or minimal...
  • Valerity (Val)
    2018-11-05
    Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother's Will to SurviveStephanie Land didn’t have it easy.  She was a single mom who worked hard cleaning other people’s houses, working in their yards, doing whatever she had to in order to feed herself and her daughter, Mia. This was after she found herself homeless when the father of her daughter kicked them out. It’s not like she felt she could ask her folks for help, no way. She found that government h...
  • Nancy
    2019-01-25
    "Poverty was like a stagnant pool of mud that pulled at our feet and refused to let go." from Maid by Stephanie LandI'll be brutally honest, and you can "unfollow" me if you want, I don't care, but ever since Presidents Roosevelt and Johnson created social programs to help the poor there have been politicians determined to slash, limit, and end them. And one of their methods is to vilify the poor as blood-sucking, lazy, ignorant, "self-entitled" ...
  • C.J. Maughan
    2019-01-17
    Hooooooooo boy was this one frustrating. I almost gave up multiple times because it made me so angry, but let's just start at the beginning. I got this from Book of the Month. On their description it wasn't exactly clear that this was a nonfiction read (they may have changed it since). So I had VERY different expectations upon opening this book up and was very disappointed to see that it was not fiction. But, hey, I'm cool, I like nonfiction and ...
  • Susan
    2018-07-11
    First, this book is most certainly NOT in the category of Evicted, one of the most well-researched, measured and thoughtful books published on the subject of chronic poverty in America. I wanted to like this book, and feel that the subject matter is critically important to expose and discuss. Yet...I just didn't. There's a kind of immaturity about the book (and frankly, many of the author's actions) that grated, especially the flip-flopping betwe...
  • Donna
    2019-01-25
    This is one book that I’ve grappled with in trying to write a review. There are a few conflicting impressions that I’ve turned over in my mind, causing me to question why I feel as I do about the story. I thought about just giving a glossed-over review, focusing only on what I appreciated (and there was a lot to appreciate) about this account of a young, single mother’s struggle to survive and raise her child. I wanted to be generous, but I...
  • Autumn
    2018-06-20
    Is this book supposed to be surprising? Eye-opening? It's by a lady who gets pregnant from an abusive relationship and then she has to clean houses and wrangle with government assistance programs to make ends meet. Like 1 million other ladies. I don't get it.
  • Kate Olson
    2019-01-28
    3.5 stars - audiobook formatI had been waiting for this book since I first read about it in the Publisher's Weekly announcements issue back in June 2018, and I preordered it from Audible. THAT'S how excited I was! "Nickel & Dimed" and "Evicted" are two of my favorite nonfiction reads, and I was somewhat expecting this to be in the same category. It's not, though, which I'm fine with, just surprised.I was sucked into Stephanie's story and felt suc...
  • Katie
    2019-02-09
    “I WORK 25 HOURS A WEEK AS A PROFESSIONAL CLEANER, BUT IT’S NOT ENOUGH TO PAY THE BILLS.” (Page 131)Going into this book, I so badly wanted to come out rooting for Stephanie Land, but I keep coming back to that quote above and cannot wrap my head around what should be “surprising” about her story. As a college educated woman who works for one of the largest companies in the world, if I worked 25 hours a week it would not be enough to pa...
  • Sarah
    2018-07-25
    Oh this is powerful! It spoke to my human and social worker heart. This will make you think twice about cultural stereotypes surrounding single motherhood and about use of government aid. I wanted to high five Land so many times. I’ve watched clients, close family members, and myself wrestle with these exact hardships and this broken, punitive system. Glad to have a well-written book to put this out there.
  • Linda Hutchinson
    2019-01-30
    This won’t be popular but I found this book, “Maid,” supremely irritating. The pitch was whiny, judgmental, and jealous. This may come off as harsh but some life situations are made from bad choices. Some from just bad luck. But to begrudge anyone else a bit of happiness because your life is hard was just poor taste. I admire Stephanie Land’s work ethic...but, I didn’t think her writing was strong and the details were repetitious. There...
  • Kenzee
    2018-08-19
    *I won this book in a GoodReads Giveaway*I really thought I was going to like this book. As someone who was raised by a bad a** single mother, who fought her way up in the world, I thought I would really relate to this story. It didn't happen.Despite the seriousness of the topic - I just couldn't muster up much sympathy for her. Which seems insane. How could I not feel for her? Here's why:"Living with illness or pain was part of my daily life. Bu...
  • Janday
    2018-03-24
    Stephanie Land has never stopped advocating for herself. As a young single mother escaping an abusive relationship with no help from her family, she found herself homeless and jobless. Her daughter took her first steps in a homeless shelter. Once she was eligible for housing, she had to endure constant surveillance, degrading lectures on energy efficiency, and no visitors. Once she found employment as a maid, she worked for less than minimum wage...
  • Patty Smith
    2019-01-19
    Many thanks to NetGalley, Hachette Books, and Stephanie Land for an ARC in exchange for an honest review. My opinions are 100% my own and independent of receiving an advanced copy.Stephanie Land has written a raw, honest, in-your-face book about what it is like to be poor, a single mother and working at what is considered to be menial labour. I found this read difficult and uncomfortable and I think that is what she wants you to feel. As I starte...
  • lit.erary.britt
    2019-01-14
    This well-written memoir is a prime example as to why I love the genre. Reading about other people’s experiences helps us to better understand and empathize. Stephanie Land placed her college plans on hold as she unexpectedly became pregnant; a single mom with little support, living in poverty. She struggled daily to provide for herself and her daughter working as a house cleaner and landscaper, filling the gaps with government assistance. She...
  • Vicki (kybookgirl)
    2019-02-14
    Great non fiction by @stepville with so many similarities as a single mother that I often felt that I could’ve written it myself. Biggest difference is that I had a supportive family. This book is a story of survival, motherhood, the welfare system and the American working poor. In a country of plenty like the US, the working poor are marginalized for not being ambitious enough or being lazy. It is shocking to read how strangers treated Stephan...
  • Rae
    2018-12-09
    Maid by Stephanie Land provides a startling look into what it's like to be a hard-working single mom on minimum wage. Maid was an absolutely wonderful read! I connected with this book on so many different levels. My parents didn't have a lot of money growing up, and I remember the days when my parents had to use food stamps just to buy the basics for us to eat. They were embarrassed. They hated it. But they had no choice. Stephanie Land's memo...
  • Stephanie Hall
    2018-11-25
    Advance reading copy provided by Hatchette.I wish I could say I enjoyed this book as much as I hoped to when I first received it. This story is so important because it will open the eyes of so many people to the struggles of others living in poverty, particularly single mothers and domestic abuse survivors. However, I had so many issues with the author that I really couldn't connect to her and her story. A main theme of this book was trying to st...
  • Kasa Cotugno
    2018-10-08
    Stephanie Land admits she's made mistakes, but the one constant she's had for the past ten years -- her unwavering love for her daughter, Mia. Upon discovering she is pregnant, she discards her dream of moving to Missoula Montana and pursuing a degree as a writer. The following five years, well documented here, find her moving from various homes without much help from a family ill equipped to provide any, and despite a history of scoliosis, worki...
  • Marianne Kaplan
    2018-06-14
    Rarely do I not finish a book. This is one of them. Could not relate to the author nor to her story. Have read many tales of people down on their luck trying to make it back, and I had compassion in each instance. In this book, I did not feel particularly compassionate about the author or her story, sorry to say.
  • Mehrsa
    2019-02-13
    I had mixed feelings about this book. I liked the vivid accounts of what it was like to live in poverty. I think too few people understand that someone can be very hard working and do everything possible and still be poor. We judge people who are poor as bad people who make poor decisions when it's actually just luck and circumstances much of the time. The thing that bothered me about the account is that she does see herself as different than the...
  • Maria Li
    2019-01-13
    I really wanted to like this book. I liked it at times. But other times I felt it was overly whiny. Yes life is difficult, especially in the author’s situation, but that doesn’t mean not taking responsibility for your actions, whether it’s the decision to postpone college, or to have a child while financially unstable, everyone chooses their own path. I found myself wondering over and over again what the other people in her life would say a...